50/50 vs. Gimme

Sometimes it may be more like 60/40 or 35/65 BUT if your relationship normally leans towards 80/20 or 90/10 then a chat is long overdue.

What am I talking about? Oh, things that mates and significant others do like contribute, participate, converse, check in with, acknowledge, thank, support ...

If you, or your partner, is running light on the giving and heavy on the gimme - that is not a healthy relationship. This is a wake up call to get back in balance. Don't sulk or blame - just talk it out and move forward.