12 Steps to Love.

O.k. you may consider this an unconventional place to look for Love. Wait - let me present my case. Answer each question and feel your way ...

1. Would you agree that most of us - including YOU - have a lot of work to do when it comes to learning "how to" Love ourselves? Yes/NO

2. Do you think that everyone has problems and issues to work through? Yes/No

3. Do you agree with this statement "The problem doesn't matter nearly as much as the problem solving process. Are they avoiding IT or acknowledging it and taking appropriate action -- that is what matters most." Agree/Disagree

The best place I know of to meet people who take "IT" on; laugh at themselves and "IT" and are humble and helpful to others is in the 12 Step community.

Name your "IT" and there is a group waiting for you. Your footwork is to find them These rooms tend to be hidden behind churches, inside medical offices, hospitals and schools. To get you started on your 12 Step Meeting search, click here.

So -- you get started on clearing out whatever is in between you, fully Loving you. Then you won't be looking for Love - you'll have it. And, who knows what mature, responsible, fun loving, humble, action oriented significant other you might meet someday in some room with or without a view.