50/50 vs. Gimme

Sometimes it may be more like 60/40 or 35/65 BUT if your relationship normally leans towards 80/20 or 90/10 then a chat is long overdue.

What am I talking about? Oh, things that mates and significant others do like contribute, participate, converse, check in with, acknowledge, thank, support ...

If you, or your partner, is running light on the giving and heavy on the gimme - that is not a healthy relationship. This is a wake up call to get back in balance. Don't sulk or blame - just talk it out and move forward.

MAYA ANGELOU'S

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE enough money within her control to move out
and rent a place of her own even if she never wants to or needs to ...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE something perfect to wear if the employer or date of her
dreams wants to see her in an hour...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE a youth she's content to leave behind ....

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE a past juicy enough that she's looking forward to
retelling it in her old age....

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE a set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black
lace bra...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE one friend who always makes her laugh
... and one who lets her cry...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE a good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone
else in her family...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE eight matching plates, wine glasses with stems, and a
recipe for a meal that will make her guests feel honored...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE a feeling of control over her destiny...

Tomorrow - or soon - I'll post what comes next ... What Every Woman Should Know ... Be sure to add in your comments too!

Love Thy Neighbor and ...

This morning I asked one of my neighbors for advice on how to fix my lawnmower. A half hour an hour later the doorbell rang and there he was loaning his to us.

Now I am looking out of my office window watching a couple other beloved neighbors chat away.

I Love these people. Our Love affair developed one wave, one batch of banana bread, one reciprocated cup of milk and stick of butter at a time.

Too often we look for Love "over there" when it is right here a couple doors away.

Today - who can you Love, uplift, encourage, wave at and touch with your smile --- from your front door? Look outside and see ...

I am wishing you ...

heaven in your heart

starlight in your soul
and angels in your life.

What are you wishing for yourself today?

Did you know that you have to have a dream to have a dream come true? Starting wishing, start dreaming ...

Come to your senses in Love!

Bring home a bouquet to place by your bed or bathtub. Think color.

Orange = optimism, energy, warmth, health
Red = Love, passion, joy, power
Purple = precious, sacred
Blue = strong, peaceful
Green = growth, health, harmony
Lavender = feminine, grace

Think fragrance and sleep tight with Jasmine, Tubular Roses and Star Gazer Lilies.

Be at peace with lavender, sage and basil.

Or refresh your heart with pine, eucalyptus, cedar, lemon and mint.

Geek Love! Animal Love! Work with what you already appreciate and Love to help you find more Love ...

Here's one example. If you value intelligence, originality, hard working, passionate people maybe a geek is in your future.
Just heard about this website called Geek 2 Geek or GK2GK.com for short!

Me - I love Geeks - digitheads - brainiacs - whatever you call them. They are often tender, always interested in lots of things, disarming through their honesty and authentic. Heck, I kind of married one ... and am a tad geeky myself.

Another site I Love is called DateMyPet.com why? 'cause I Love animals. I can't imagine being with someone who doesn't. Can you?

So - these are just two examples of following your passions to Love vs. trying to make yourself "fit" somewhere with someone. Be real and you will attract real Love.

People are like stained glass windows: they sparkle and shine when the sun's out, but when the darkness sets in, their true beauty is revealed only if there is light within.

--- Nancy

Who do you know that is lit from within by Love? Are you?

Be-Do-Have More Love.

Be the Love you want.
Do Love others.
Have more Love.

The heart is a muscle - the more you work it the more Love you have and the more Love you attract to you.

I have a suggestion ... volunteer your heart somewhere ...

One of my favorite places to be-do-have is the Humane Society. Every Wed afternoon I walk dogs for a couple of hours. In other words I get hours of unconditional Love and I get a great workout. Have lost about a lb a week since I started! You know its Love when it is win*win*win.

Would you like to share how you give your heart a work out? Pls add in by clicking on "Comments."

Ready for Love Song by India Airie!

I can't believe it! I just found my favorite song - Ready For Love - on uTube. This is more than a song - it is the inspiration behind the past 3-4 years of my life. This song is the Law of Attraction for Love.

You have to listen to it for yourself. Just click here and empower your intention - worked for me.

AND - If you have a success story of your own to share about Ready for Love please post it here!